While jibe is likely the word you’re looking for, each has a specific and different meaning. Gibe either is an insulting or mocking remark or means to make an insulting or mocking remark. Jibe, a verb only, usually means to agree or to be in accord, though in sailing it means to adjust the sail to follow the wind (and is spelled gybe in British English). Jive refers to swing dance, swing music, or a type of black-American slang; it can also mean to taunt or sneer at.
The idiom to jibe with is the correct spelling when meaning to be in emotional alignment with. To jive with either means collective taunting or a jam session (albeit with a verb acting as a noun).